Or, are they like money and material goods: the more one has the more one wants. If happiness is the ratio of what one has to what one wants, then it'll always prove elusive. The only way is to want less. But, does that also apply to PR's? Is it also the ratio of PR's one has to PR's one wants?
What got me thinking about this was the Harrisburg Marathon that I ran in early November of last year. After the DNF at the
Abebe Bikila Day International Peace (Potomac) Marathon in September, my main goal for Harrisburg was to just finish, so as to rid myself of the "mental thing," that vague but nagging fear that the next time I'll also not be able to get beyond Mile 19, which was where I had to stop at Potomac. Now that I've gone beyond Mile 19 and finished a marathon, I feel my psychological recovery is complete--though, see
Walnut Creek (!).
The race organization for Harrisburg was very well done. The facilities of City Island, especially the Carousel Pavilion and plentiful parking, made for easy logistics for packet pickup, pre-race waiting, and post-race food and results posting. The volunteers were super, at the start/finish and along the course. There was not much of the usual announcements and ceremonies at the start of the race on Market Street Bridge--it was almost too efficient! I knew the race had started only because everyone around me began to run. The course was generally scenic, except for couple miles along Industrial Road right after the halfway point. The 3-4 miles along the Susquehanna River were especially enjoyable, both going out (Miles 8-11) and coming back (Miles 23-26), despite my struggle over the latter miles (see below). Harrisburg was a relatively small race (< 1,000 runners), and spectators were present only along certain stretches of the course. So, at times, runners had to be their own cheering sections. The final crossing of the narrow pedestrian bridge to City Island and finish line, though, had crowded and loud spectator support! Among the post-race food, I didn't find the advertised hot chocolate; but, there was coffee--even better! I didn't stay at the race HQ hotel, because it only had valet parking. Instead, I stayed at a hotel just a few blocks away from City Island. It wasn't fancy but had everything I needed for a restful pre-race stay. Zippered race shirt was quite nice, though both the shirt and the finisher's medal should have included the year.
Overall, I was satisfied but not thrilled with how I ran Harrisburg. At the start line, I saw the guy who had paced me to my first sub-4:00 at
Pocono in May (2014) holding the 3:55 pace sign. That time being my BQ, I briefly flirted with the idea of following him. Fortunately, I decided to follow my plan and just make sure that I finished. As it turned out, I stayed with the 4:00 pacer for most of the first 18 miles. But, I lost him between Miles 18 and 20, in Wildwood Lake Park, on the Wildwood Park Trail, which was basically a series of hills. I lost some time there though not too much. But, it took quite a bit out of me, and that eventually caught up with me starting with Mile 23. Alex Hutchinson had an article last year on some Australian research on
running hills that provided some valuable pointers on running both uphill and downhill. I actually run hills very similarly to what this research recommended. So, the problem I had in Wildwood Lake Park wasn't my hill techniques. The problem was more a mental one. A friend at work had warned me about the "hill part" of the Harrisburg course, by which I thought he'd meant
one hill. When one turned out to be at least four (maybe more; lost count), that, I feel, contributed to my slowdown starting with Mile 23.
Could I have done more to not have slowed down? Among the many elements of
athletic IQ, performance statement (mantra) is one that had worked so well for me in Pocono ("it's 90% mental, stupid" or "dumb it down"), but, I forgot all about mantra for the entire race! Same for strides, which I've been practicing during training runs. Perhaps a few strides during those latter miles could have waken up the legs (?). Also, perhaps I should have taken the fifth gel after Mile 20.
In any case, I still ended up with my second best time (4:08). So, I should be very happy, right?
Well, I wasn't and that's what got me thinking about PR's and happiness. By the time of my slowdown at Mile 23, I knew I couldn't finish under 4:00. And that realization led to a noticeable lack of motivation in those last few miles. It's as if I've been spoiled: Now that I've run 3:59 (Pocono), to finish with a 4:0x something seems no longer of great interest any more!
A Wall Street Journal article last November,
Can money buy you happiness? (in case this links to a restricted article, try google "can money buy you happiness article"), reported on some recent research that suggested wealth alone does not provide any guarantee of a good life. (Not too surprising!) What matters a lot more is how the wealth is spent. "For instance, giving money away makes people a lot happier than lavishing it on themselves. And when they do spend money on themselves, people are a lot happier when they use it for experiences like travel than for material goods." Here's another similar article on
"buying happiness." Getting back to where I began this piece, if happiness is the ratio of what one has to what one wants, the only way to really be happy is to want less. But, that doesn't necessarily mean one should strive to have nothing and to want nothing. It's a matter of what one does with what one has. It's not wanting money and material goods for their own sake.
So, happiness can be the ratio of PR's one has to PR's one wants. And, similarly, it doesn't mean one should strive to have no PR's and to want no PR's--and be, what, a couch potato? It's not wanting PR's for their own sake. But, rather, it's regarding PR's as markers, bracketing the growth in between, along the way in the journey of running--or in the journey of that metaphor for running, life. :) With this understanding of PR's, I feel a lot more inspired, as I start Week 3 of my 16-week training cycle, aimed at a repeat run of, and a repeat try for BQ at, Pocono. For more inspiration, I can also look towards the
overall winner of last year's Harrisburg, with a time of 2:40:23, the 54 year old Doug Fernandez, who said "age is more mental than physical" and "people get old, prematurely, in their minds."
How true.